"To marry is not to attack. If only I'm not married, "is the old good wisdom. It would seem that there may be a common in this matter in the modern lady and woman from the good old Russia (approximately from these times the proverb also went). And the meaning of something has not changed at all. What is pushing the girls to take the responsible step - to condemn yourself to the oath of loyalty and devotion to one single? Why do women get married?
Generally, for a young lady of any age this questionabsolutely obvious: I want a normal woman's happiness. But what importance does a woman put in the word "happiness" - this is a strictly individual question. Let us strive in theory and reasoning and analyze its basic concepts.
Put this feeling on the first place in the list,because exactly it forces you to perform heroic and audacious actions. Marriage, in some way, refers to such. The candy-flowery period, magic words and compliments, incredible sex - all this makes the fair sex feel completely happy. It is a pity only that love has its terms. Scientists say this is about 9 months to 3 years. And psychologists, in turn, say that it is the first and third year that presuppose a crisis of family life.
Surprisingly, in our XXI century women are veryare dependent on the issue of marriage from public opinion and traditions. How is it, to get married after 30 years? No, it is necessary earlier, because all try before, so I need. All the girlfriends around are married, but why did I stay long? Somehow it's not according to tradition! And happiness, a great happiness for the girl on the eve of these meditations, hunt yourself with marriage.
Natural instincts take their toll. A woman must become a mother. To give birth, raise a child, nurse his children and so on. No wonder there is an opinion: "Do you want to know whether you love a man or not, ask yourself if you want children from him." And the elected in this respect, women look like females: give the privilege of healthy, beautiful and strong. To children, as they say, turned out. And with a successful outcome of the case, for sure the girl will be happy!
Desire to avoid loneliness
The fear of loneliness, according to psychologists,one of the most common phobias. Women are no exception. With whom to go on vacation, with whom to raise a child, with whom to meet old age - all these questions willy-nilly pop up in the head of girls. At someone more often, at someone less often. Especially think those who are with men for some reason, no luck. And this fear of being alone pushes the ladies to the most incredible deeds. Actions, which, perhaps, have to ask yourself: why did I get married? But it comes - fleeting, but nevertheless the happiness of non-solitude.
A man next to it is self-confidence, and at the same timean excuse to prove to everyone and everyone that you need someone, they chose you, the male looked at you. Now you can walk with him by the hand, wear an engagement ring on this hand and mentally prove to all your friends (especially those who have not yet been chosen) that you are the best. Is not this happiness?
Reflecting on marriage, a woman somehowimagine the future life. She is the landlady, he is the breadwinner. Variants, when he is not just an earner, but a gold miner for many seems to be a perfect paradise. Still, a man at his side, you can safely rely on financial matters. Well, is it not happiness to live, and not to deny yourself anything?
Desire to be in a new role
Girls in their emotional nature after allactress. Sometimes I just want to stay in a new role - the role of the wife and mother, in the role of keeper of the hearth. Such passion excites, but will I get it? That would be a try. And happiness when there is an opportunity to play this role.
So the question is, why marry, not so painful.