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Mistakes of women in relationships that lead to the rupture of your union.
I already wrote about what could be the cause of adultery and leaving a man out of a relationship. I will continue to develop this topic, so stay tuned. Today I would like to talk about the mistakes that make women in a relationship. And then they wonder why a man is looking for something on the side. And even goes away. And these mistakes are made by both wives in marriage, and people who just meet for the time being, even mistresses.
I already wrote about what could be the cause of adultery and leaving a man out of a relationship.
I will continue to develop this topic, so stay tuned.
Why a man leaves
Today I would like to talk about the mistakes that make women in a relationship. And then they wonder why a man is looking for something on the side. And even goes away.
And these mistakes are made by both wives in marriage, and people who just meet for the time being, even mistresses.
So let's go.
1. To take away from the man leadership in the relationship. wrote about it in more detail last week.
2. Constantly insist on their own, lack of softness and flexibility. Up to the ultimatum: “Either you will do it, or I will go to my mother!”
Such behavior is perceived as an obvious manipulation. A strong man will never allow this to be treated.
And after several times it will simply multiply you by zero.
And you will not understand why it happened. And you will begin to chew with the eternal friends, that all men - Kazlu.
Even ultimatums should be done gently and gradually, with a touch of weary doom.
And he is, for example, when you can not push a man to marriage.
I wrote about this in detail in my book "A happy marriage after 35."
In all other cases, forget about such pressure on a man!
You should always look for a compromise. Remember, dear ones, what your partner’s pushing is like is a manifestation of strength.
And power is masculine. Our female is weakness. And our strength is in our weakness.
The real art is to make a man accept your idea and consider it his own.
The simplest mechanism is to push him to this thought.
For example, with these words: “How do you look at that ....?” If his answer does not suit you, answer: “Hmm, a good idea, and what other options are possible?” And so on to the bitter end.
When he makes the decision you need, rush to his neck and admire his mental abilities, that he has thought of such a wonderful decision.
When you put pressure on a man, you yourself become a man, that is, his rival. And, therefore, you lose your femininity.
Can one admire a woman who has lost her femininity? Especially if threats or even blackmail are used?
It is doubtful.
Besides, the trust between you is lost. Breaking emotional bond. And this is the very foundation on which any strong alliance is built.
As already said, to constantly insist on your own, to argue with a man - to become, as it were, his rival.
A man does not want to live with a rival. Opponent destroy.
But he can not physically destroy you?
Therefore, a man goes to strontium, where he will be loved and accepted.
Or even completely go into other relationships, despite your cleanliness in the apartment and delicious cooking.
Often this behavior is not recognized by the woman herself. That is, as if "I do not see a log in my own eye."
Analyze your past broken off by no fault of yours.
As far as the desire to insist on your characteristic?
When and why did it occur?
What were the consequences?
And we will continue to analyze women's mistakes tomorrow. So I am waiting for you!
With love for you, AI.